Thanks. TBH I’m 30 in a week and other than being slightly damaged I honestly do not know who I am or what I want. All I know is my son is everything to me (cheesy I know). Actually 1 thing I know I do want is to move to Germany, but the only thing is I can’t be arsed to learn German and that makes me feel like a useless twat (I’m not into the whole “Pointy Shouty” synonymous with Brits on holiday). Oh and I’m not sure the wife would be keen on the move either….